- →Breathe IN through your nose for 4 counts.
- →HOLD for 4 counts.
- →Breathe OUT through your mouth for 4 counts.
- →HOLD for 4 counts. Repeat 4 cycles.
- →Use when: panic rising, before a scan, can't sleep.
- →1. Situation — what triggered it?
- →2. Thought — what did your mind say?
- →3. Feeling — what's the emotion + intensity (1–10)?
- →4. Distortion — is this catastrophizing / mind-reading / fortune-telling?
- →5. Reframe — what would you tell a friend?
Defuse a feared thought (ACT)
- →Say: 'I'm noticing the thought that…'
- →Then: 'I'm noticing that I'm noticing the thought that…'
- →Thank your mind: 'Thanks, mind.'
- →Ask: 'What action moves me toward what matters in the next 10 minutes?'
- →5 things you can see
- →4 things you can touch
- →3 things you can hear
- →2 things you can smell
- →1 thing you can taste
- →Stop. Sit. Both feet on the floor.
- →One slow exhale, twice as long as the inhale.
- →Name one feeling without judging it.
- →Name one thing you need in the next hour.
- →Send one message asking for it — or write it down.