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One-page cheat sheets

Print them. Stick them on the fridge. Save them in your notes app.

Box breathing (4-4-4-4)

  1. Breathe IN through your nose for 4 counts.
  2. HOLD for 4 counts.
  3. Breathe OUT through your mouth for 4 counts.
  4. HOLD for 4 counts. Repeat 4 cycles.
  5. Use when: panic rising, before a scan, can't sleep.

Catch the thought (CBT)

  1. 1. Situation — what triggered it?
  2. 2. Thought — what did your mind say?
  3. 3. Feeling — what's the emotion + intensity (1–10)?
  4. 4. Distortion — is this catastrophizing / mind-reading / fortune-telling?
  5. 5. Reframe — what would you tell a friend?

Defuse a feared thought (ACT)

  1. Say: 'I'm noticing the thought that…'
  2. Then: 'I'm noticing that I'm noticing the thought that…'
  3. Thank your mind: 'Thanks, mind.'
  4. Ask: 'What action moves me toward what matters in the next 10 minutes?'

Grounding 5-4-3-2-1

  1. 5 things you can see
  2. 4 things you can touch
  3. 3 things you can hear
  4. 2 things you can smell
  5. 1 thing you can taste

Carer's 3-minute reset

  1. Stop. Sit. Both feet on the floor.
  2. One slow exhale, twice as long as the inhale.
  3. Name one feeling without judging it.
  4. Name one thing you need in the next hour.
  5. Send one message asking for it — or write it down.